- Death
Children will be confronted with death at some point in their young years. And when they are, it is best to not hide them from it, but present it as a natural part of life.
Romper reported on children’s author and parenting expert, Julia Cook’s thoughts on being upfront with our children:
“We think that some things are too big and complex for them, but all kids need truth and communication. If they don’t get the truth, then trust is fractured and they will not continue coming to you for information. If they have questions, give them information they can process on their level.”
If a pet dies, you can tell a child that it’s part of a beautiful circle of life where their bodies give back to the Earth.
When it’s a relative that passes, tell them that you know it’s sad that they aren’t here, but that you can talk about them anytime they are missed.
Ask them about any feelings they are experiencing specifically, like “Are you feeling angry that grandpa has passed away?”, letting them know that these feelings are a normal part of grieving.