- Ever force your child in an uncomfortable physical encounter
Basic body safety rules are good to establish and enforce. Have them ask someone before they give hugs, or wrestle.
In return, your child should be able to tell someone they don’t want a hug right now, or to “please stop” when they are in an uncomfortable scenario.
Hugs, kisses, sitting on the lap, or any other form of physical contact should never be mandatory for your child, even if it is a family member.
The other party may be offended, but having your child feel they are obligated to give affection, or have affection forced on them is a recipe for disaster; as a young person and as an adult.
Children should be taught to trust their instincts when it comes to danger and uncomfortable situations. Let them know that if it feels wrong, to leave immediately and discuss it with you.
These communication tips and warnings of sexual offenders can change the course of your child’s future if followed unapologetically.
Many parents feel social pressures to not be called “helicopter parents”, or to appease traditions by family and friends.
It is our responsibility, and our burden to bear, if our children are harmed when it could have been prevented.
If the unthinkable does happen to your child, ensure them that you are not angry at them, and that you do not blame them for what happened.
Talk with your children often about every aspect of their life so that communication between the family is normal and natural.
Ceasing to live our lives shouldn’t be an acceptable option to all the worries of the world, but that doesn’t mean we can’t keep our eyes wide open.
Please let us know in the comments section if you have learned from experience any preventative measures to keep your child safe from sexual abuse.